Love

Problem Spouse Palace

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When decoding for a potential of a good marriage, or not, the Spouse Palace is often the first to analyze.

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If any of these single star resides in the Spouse Palace of a ZWDS chart, it is better to marry late in life.
1. You Bi,
2. Zou Fu,
3. Wen Chang,
4. Wen Qu,
5. Lian Zhen,
6. Tan Lang,
7. Po Jun,
8. Ju Men.

These stars indicate turbulence, and hectic relationship after marriage. Each specific star carries a slightly different meaning in the bad ‘rocky’ relationship of the couple. Check the App book for more information.
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Hmm… maybe it is a good idea to check your potential partner’s chart before investing your time, and effort. Preventative measure is not to build a wreck in courting that will soon be demolished after marriage. Divorce, separation, and heartache are in the progress if someone has these stars in their Spouse Palace.

Do not fall into outer good appearance, and money that could lead to a disaster if you, or your potential spouse has a problematic Spouse Palace.

How to solve this issue? One possible mean is to marry later in life. There are more remedies, plus analyzing the trajectory planes, but these are covered in the Advanced Class/Topics.


Interesting Facts:

* When you have a crush on someone, your brain overlooks and ignore the flaws of that person causing them to appear ‘perfect’;

*The foundation of a healthy relationship is Trust and Communication;

*Don’t fight for someone’s attention. If they really care, you should not have to

*A good relationship is worth the wait.

Certainties | Uncertainties

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Zi Wei Dou Shu is a powerful tool used to analyze life events, and life destiny. It is a profound destiny analysis tool, and has been practiced for thousands of years where it is shaped, reformed, and renewed.

However, there are some conceptual or underlying philosophical challenges that one needs to know when decoding a Zi Wei Dou Shu destiny chart.

First off, the destiny chart will indicate fated events, and/or signals to possible events. These events usually happens, and sometimes may happen but in a different circumstance. You may have encountered two person with the same destiny chart that results in two different outcomes but with close similarities. The positive or negative signal reveals will happen but the scope of impact could be different. It is circumstantial!

Relationship Analysis in Zi Wei Dou Shu

For example, if there is an indication of a divorce or a separation, native A could be separated with the partner due to constant work travel or work related project and needs to be physically away from home for months or years. When done, native A’s partner returned and the separation has been successfully concluded. No divorce but a separation for native A. However, even without a divorce, but a separation, the relationship could still be jeopardized until the timing has concluded.

On the other hand, native B stayed together with the partner and there were no plans of separation [ie. living separately]. When the separation/divorce signal reveals at a certain year, and nothing was done to avoid the separation, a divorce is highly likely, and the probability is almost certain. However, taking it one step further, the separation event for native B is either a divorce, or probably separated [in the affairs of the heart], but not physically or legally.

There are other factors to consider as well. These include external factors such as the environmental factors, societal norms, family/people influences, and the environmental science [Feng Shui]. In any case, if native B is not divorced at that time, native B’s would have lost the love and romance factor, but hanging on due to other pressures and influences mentioned above.

The Lesson here is that certainties and uncertainties could happen. Although events are classified as a ‘cast-in-stone’ that must happen, there is a window of freewill and external influences, that could alter the event, but slightly.

As a practitioner in Zi Wei Dou Shu, it is imperative to not conclude certainty of a signal or a revelation of the codes in the chart. The best practice is to suggest a possibility of occurrences, and not a definite conclusion, coupled with some guidance to minimize the negative events [if you are experienced in the skill of Zi Wei Dou Shu]. ‘Divorce’ is a taboo word that could result in anxiety, psychological imbalances, depression, etc. Care must be taken to suggest negative signals. Never be one hundred percent certain, and leave a window of uncertainties when deciphering the revelation of signals and codes.


Interesting Facts:

* Not everyone is meant to be in your future forever. Some people are just passing through to teach you lessons in life;

* All married couples tend to fight over the same five things: money, sex, work, parenting, and household;

* Important thing to remember: You can’t please everyone.

Significance of the Life Palace

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In Zi Wei Dou Shu, the birth “Life Palace” relates to the character, personality, and the “group-type” of the individual. On the other hand, even if the “Ten-Years” luck cycle changes, the character or the personality of the person do not completely change. It may, however, change slightly but the pre-born characteristics do tagged on for life. There are five “group-types” as discussed in the “Winning Destiny with Zi Wei Dou Shu book”.

Life Palace Zi Wei Dou Shu

In Flying Star Zi Wei Dou Shu, the star(s) residing in the Life Palace offers an interesting code to decipher a person’s overall ‘pre-born’ characteristics. If you find someone lazy, and need to be pushed to do things, it is likely because of the star characteristics residing in his/her Life Palace. However, it does not mean that the person will not change. He/She may change slightly during the Ten Years Dynamic Chart Cycle, but the root of the character is still there.

To predict a person’s character, the combination of the Life, Mental and Travel palaces need to be deciphered.

  • The Life Palace indicates the person’s overall character;
  • The Mental Palace indicates the person’s inner (hidden) character/personality/behavior;
  • The Travel Palace indicates the person’s outer character in social circumstances.

Therefore, by deciphering all these three palaces, we can usually understand a person character more closely than with just one palace.


Interesting Facts:

* Introversion is strongly associated with creativity and intelligence – 75% of people with IQs over 160 are introverts;

* It is better to walk alone than with a crowd going in the wrong direction;

* People with awkward and weird personalities tend to make the best friends.